Showing posts with label Plan for the future. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Plan for the future. Show all posts

Wednesday, 17 July 2019

What Would You Do With A Year's Wages?


If you didn't have to work for one year what would you do?

 




Here's a lovely thought experiment for you, just for fun and a little self indulgence:

You come into some money. Perhaps an unexpetced inheritance or investment payout. 
It's the equivalent to one year's salary. 

What would you do with it?


It's just enough for one year - after that, who knows... 
Would you let the fear of uncertainty for the year after put you off taking a risk?

I wonder what people would answer to these questions?

A year's wages comes into your life, how would you use the money?


Would you still work?
Would you take a sabbatical?
Would you quit your job and take a risk, see how far a year's earnings would last?
Quit your job and give yourself a year to find the job of your dreams?

Take a once-in-a-lifetime holiday?

Pay off a chunk of your mortgage? Or put down a deposit for your first home?

Do all the things to your home you said you always wanted to do? Install that extra bathroom. 
Build that extension. Revamp your whole house. Install that dream kitchen.

Perhaps you would inivest it? 

Angel invest in a new business or venture?

Put a deposit down on a second home to rent out?

Pay it into your pension?

Stick it in a savings account? 

Start a trust fund for your kids?

Would you take that part-time hustle and build it into a business? 

Pay off your student loan, or those other debts you've been hiding from?

You could get a whole new wardrobe?
A new car?

What would you do with the money?

Think Of It As Redundancy


What if you thought of it like a redundancy payout - would that change your mindset about taking 
a risk?

Tell yourself the job no longer needs you. You don't need to work for a year.

Redundancy is often a catalyst for change.

It's easy to fall into a job, a routine. You're just riding that cashflow conveyor belt towards each 
weekend; counting them down until you retire and can finally do what you want.

Would a year's money be enough to 'do what you want', right now? 

Why wait until you're too old to do the things you've got on your bucket list?

What about stepping off that conveyor belt? Would you do it? 

It's easier to stay, to hang on for your pension - especially if your job isn't bad.

We're afraid of risking everything by leaving a regular wage.

But if it were a rediundany payout, that can feel like a body blow. 
In can throw a spanner in the cogs of that conveyor belt.

A redundancy can make or break us, if we let it.

If you considered that chunk of money as a redundancy payout, that this is your moment to leave 
your job behind and try something new, would that shift your attitude to risk? 
If you tell yourself there wasn't a choice?

 

Our Life Changing Redundancies


In our relationship, there have been a couple of life-changing moments and they all started 
with redundancy payouts.

Each redundancy has been a new beginning. However, as with any new beginning, there is 
inevitable grief over what you've lost, then the fear of uncertainty to come.

My first redundancy payout - I think it was 2002 - paid for our wedding (in Florida)! 

But, it also opened a door for me into a career in enterprise and employment support. 

I had been a HR officer for a factory in Somerset, and likely would have followed a preplanned 
route up the HR ladder, because that was the easy option. 

My choices, my life experience, the people I met from all walks of life all opened my eyes to a 
world of socail mobility, self-development and human potential that I would never have been aware 
of if the fortunes of that factory had been different.

The second redundancy was Graham's (my husband). 

He came home from work one day and said, "When the company closes and my job ends I think 
we should move to Bulgaria."

My initial reaction was along the lines of, "What the *@**$**£# ** *@!"£$*?"

He'd been chatting to a mate in the staff canteen over a period of months (probably years) who had 
done just that. He'd invested in property in Bulgaria, renovated and flipped them and was making a 
good living. He was planning to move there himself for a very different quality of life.

We took several holidays, loooked at a few properties and took the plunge.

We stayed for 18 months before running out of money and returning to the UK. 

Those were the most enlightening, inspiring and amazing 18 months of our lives. 
An experience that allowed us to learn more about ourselves, and each other, than we ever would 
have hoped to learn had we stayed in the UK and Graham had just gone and got another job. 

I finlly pursued my lifelong dream of publishing a book, having that 'what if ' moment that set off a 
whole series of books while visiting a museum in Varna.

In 2010, with nothing but the stuff we could fit in a car, we left Bulgaria to come back to the UK. 
We ended up in the amazing city of Bristol, a place we'd visited for years but had never considered 
living in. We've since fallen in love with the place and realised that, really, we're ubanites. 
Life in rurual Somerset had never been satisfying for us, hence we spent most of our weekends 
travelling to cities around Europe and southern England.

The next defining redundancy was in 2015 when I started my own consultancy business

A decision that has made me realise my own potential, my limitations, my resilience. 

I never want to work for someone else ever again!

So, would you do it? Would you take the risk? 
Would you quit your job and give yourself a year to try something new? 

Or would you settle for making the life you already have more confortable and enjoyable; with 'stuff'
and 'holidays'?


Friday, 1 February 2019

Vision or Vanity?


Every business needs a vision, but not every entrepreneur has to be a visionary.
If you close your eyes and imagine where you would like your life to be in, say, 5 years, what might it look like?

Life in 5 Years

Each time I've done exactly that, what I see, where I imagine myself, is not in the front of my computer in my attic office!
In those daydreams, I've been on the prow of a speedboat, or laying on a bed of fur in a yurt, or cruising along the Amalfi Coast in a vintage convertible,  big bug-eyed sunglasses and a flowery scarf billowing behind me, Audrey Hepburn Style.

Where The Future Takes Us

This is where I imagine my future will take me. But these aren't one-off holidays - a few days hiatus between long spells of air-conditioned offices - No
The overwhelming feeling I've had in all these flights of fancy has been that these are high points of everyday life. 

Freedom of self-employment has allowed me to live a nomadic lifestyle.

This is the vision for my business. The vision for our life.

What's stopping this from being my life right now?


Is It Vanity?

This is where I find myself thinking of it as just 'vanity'. 

I can't only think of myself, I have a husband and a mortgage. A husband in a full-time office based job which pays that mortgage!
The thing that stops this being my reality is my responsibility to my life partner, in all things.
The challenge therefore, is to find a way to be true to both.

Is it Vision?

Writing about the 'vision' for my business is the first step to making these changes.
The first steps towards creating a reality that suits both of us.
A vision for the Morses


Being Blogger

Blogging has served me well as a means to an end, doing the thing I'll do anyway... writing.
I started my first blog in 2013, the year I published my first book, when my worlds as an author and business advisor collided in 2015, I started my consultancy business. 
That has since evolved into Learn To Love Your Words and my specialty is as a blogging mentor for business.
Building my marketing around content was the obvious solution. 
The first blog was about becoming an author - I still keep this blog on my author website.
The second blog was to grow my influence as a writing mentor and build a business.
This (third blog!) is about challenging my reality and sharing my love of travelling.
I have an innate curiosity. I love exploring and discovery. I love meeting new people and having new experiences.


I want to discover more of this amazing, diverse and fascinating planet we inhabit.


Be the change you want to see




Life's Little Luxuries

However, I also enjoy a little luxury! 

I don't mean traveling 5-star, I mean not living out of a backpack and sleeping in bug infested hovels.
I mean travelling, but maintaining a comfortable life. Earning enough money to enjoy eating and drinking out, Cafe Culture and sleeping in a comfortable - private - bedroom.
Being able to enjoy the trappings of travel, as well as living with the locals.
I would hate to travel to a once in a lifetime place and not be able to afford the entrance fee!
Perhaps this blog will turn out to be an experiment in vanity? 
Or perhaps I'll achieve the vision of location independence - of being a Wandering Entrepreneur,  a Roaming Entrepreneur? 
In the end, it doesn't matter, as long as the journey is enjoyable!